Amongst friends and in online communities, there’s a debate taking place.
People will forever wonder whether it’s better to go to the cinema with friends or go alone.
Some people relish the experience to share a new release with others. They love to share popcorn, discuss theories and laugh or cry in unison with each other.
Others love the idea of a solo cinema trip. They love the freedom and independence that going alone gives them.
In today’s article, we’ll discuss the various benefits of taking that solo cinema trip. If you haven’t tried it yet, give it a go. You’ll see why so many others do it!
Is it normal to go to the cinema alone?
Yes! It is perfectly normal to go to the cinema alone.
In fact, a lot of people do it – more than you probably realise. Cinema trips can be a great way to relax and unwind. Plus, you don’t have to worry about anyone else’s schedule or preferences – you’re free to choose the film, the time and the location.
Sometimes your tastes differ from your friends. It’s not always easy to find someone who wants to see that urban fantasy movie as much as you do. And if they’re busy, or simply don’t want to go out, you’re left disappointed and fearful of missing out.
When you go alone, you can pick whatever movie takes your fancy – without having to compromise.
Why is going to the cinema on your own better?
There are a few reasons. For starters, you don’t have to worry about anyone else’s opinion or preferences. You don’t have to worry about whether they’re enjoying the film as much as you are. It’s just you, the film and the moment.
You’re also not limited by other people’s availability. With school, work and other daily responsibilities, it can be hard to align your schedule with others.
When was the last time you did something alone? If you’re feeling overwhelmed or frustrated with constant social commitments, you might need a break. The cinema is the perfect place to do so.
Why going to the cinema alone is a form of self-care
Humans need to be alone sometimes. It’s just a fact of life. In fact, it’s recommended that we spend at least 2 hours alone every day. It gives your brain a chance to reassess and catch up.
When you go to the cinema alone, you’re taking your mind off things. It distracts you and makes you focus on the film. This is a very helpful practice for some people. In a world where so many people and things are fighting for your attention, it’s a relief to sit and focus on one thing for a couple of hours.
The cinema is a great place to relax and spend time with yourself. It’s dark and there’s no talking (or, there shouldn’t be). You can recline in your seat and let the film wash over you. It’s a good chance to switch off from reality for a little bit, which is never a bad thing.
Is it weird or sad to go to the cinema on your own?
Don’t worry, it’s not weird or sad. In fact, on the scale of weird and sad things, it’s pretty darn low.
I may be biased, but it’s a brilliant way to spend some time alone and relax. It can be a bit daunting at first, but once you’re used to the experience, you’ll hopefully realise that it’s a lot of fun.
You might be worried about what people might think. Don’t worry, there’s really no judgement. Be comfortable in the fact that you’re doing something you enjoy. Be sure of yourself – you’re doing something to benefit yourself. And there’s nothing embarrassing about that.
Final Thoughts
I remember my first trip to the cinema alone. It was to see ‘The Disaster Artist’ – a film about a film that not a single one of my friends were interested in. Believe me, I tried asking. It was a big mental hurdle for me initially. What would people think? Will I forever be condemned to a life of solo cinema-going?
In the end, not a single one of my worries was justified. Not even in the slightest. I had a fantastic time – as did the several other solo cinema-goers at that screening. I still go to the cinema with my friends and girlfriend. But now I know what to do when schedules don’t align, or nobody is interested in seeing the same film.
I’ll grab a ticket and go on my own.